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The Challenge of Anger Among Young Muslims in America

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

A supporter of the film sent me this blog post looking for my response to it.   I read the blog plus the 10 pages of commentary.  It talks about polling and the discovery that a much higher percentage of Muslim youth than any other denomination is angry, depressed or unsatisfied with their lives.   The commentaries went in a totally different direction and worried me more than the article.

Here my comments: 

I was a bit surprised at the responses that really did not at all address the issue at hand but talked about ‘repatriating’ rather than actively working on a solution to a real problem.   I find at my end there is very little energy from Muslim NGO’s to reach out across the faiths to educate and create understanding – I get a lot more support from other groupings […] to help spread the word with the film, then I do from Muslim organizations.  There seems to be much more of a fatalistic undercurrent that is also visible in the responses to the survey.

The survey itself however I’m not surprised about.  If Muslims are demonized all the time of course the youth and children will internalize that, be it that they pick it up subconsciously at home when adults talk about it or actually have negative experiences themselves.  Going ‘back’ – for many, especially converts there is no ‘back’ – is not the answer.  Muslims in this country and Europe have to learn to take responsibility to teach, reach out and build bridges – that is what’s so important.   We don’t all need to agree on everything but we need to learn to live together respectfully….

Whose Reality is it?

Tuesday, June 15th, 2010

 “As a documentarian I happily place my fate and faith in reality. It is my caretaker, the provider of subjects, themes, experiences – all endowed with the power of truth and the romance of discovery. And the closer I adhere to reality the more honest and authentic my tales. After all, the knowledge of the real world is exactly what we need to better understand and therefore possibly to love one another. It’s my way of making the world a better place.”   Albert Maysles

As documentary film makers we grapple with reality every day.  We portray reality in our films and we want others to experience it as well.  But we need to take Albert Maysles quote a step further and ask: WHOSE REALITY; mine, the subjects, yours?  What is the viewer’s reality – will the viewer see what I saw?  On what journey can I take the viewer without losing credibility?  Do I have to cater to the smallest common denominator?

I was in a mosque showing my film Abraham’s Children a few days ago.  I thought my audiences and my common ground would be the ‘love’ for the children in the film and the acknowledgement of their lives as Americans, students, athletes, academics and practicing Muslims.  But the reality for one woman in the audience was much different.  She could not get passed the fact that the more liberal families where in the same film and “next to” the conservative families that in her eyes where the only true Muslims. 

That was incredibly hard for me to hear, just on a human level, because I know that those families would strongly disagree.   What was this woman’s reality to openly express that concern? Was it pure ignorance? I think not, she’s a convert.  Was it arrogance? 

I can tell you what my reality was:  I was standing in a mosque, un-chaperoned as the only non-Muslim and very keenly aware of those facts.  I also felt badly equipped to argue my point as I was in a house of worship.

Where do the experiences of two individuals cross and where do we “see” the same thing differently? Who am I to determine what my subject’s reality is?  What I see as wrong another person sees as absolute right.  Is this just a different opinion, or is one of us lying?

Not screening in a Theatre? No problem…

Friday, May 28th, 2010

We are at a stage in the distribution of Abraham’s Children were we hold grass-roots semi-theatrical screenings.   What that means is we go to non-traditional venues, like school auditoriums and class rooms, mosques, meeting halls and living rooms to show the film.   Last weekend I had the good fortune to show Abraham’s Children twice myself.  Once at a high school auditorium and once in a 1-12K private school whose auditorium also functions as a prayer room.

Early on, Caitlin Boyle of Film Sprout had warned a bunch of us filmmakers at her (awesome) workshop on grass roots distribution outreach for social change documentaries, to let go of having the film screened in a ‘perfect’ setting.   I took that to mean, that the film might be shown in 4:3 format rather than the intended 16:9 (widescreen) or that the sound was not going to be perfect, etc.  I also assumed that I would not be there to have to witness it.

SO: on Friday and Saturday I made sure we had it all set up perfectly – right aspect ratio, sound as balanced as possible with the sound system available, room darkened, temperature right, etc.    Friday:  perfect!  Saturday? Not so.   For reasons beyond my control it was decided stop the film after it was only about 80% done.  Whaat?

Reason being, they had simply run out of time and needed the room for something else.   I was dumb folded.  Why invite me to attend?  Why go through the trouble of holding a screening of a film whose length is known?  Why schedule a speech and Q&A session with the director?  The Q&A turned into a discussion in the hallway with a few interested parties and I was back at my car before I knew it.   It was a bizarre experience and something tells me: not the last.

Moral of the story: you can only control so much and then you have to let go.  You where right, Caitlin (and Mom). 

All I can say: donate $50, get the DVD shipped to your home and FINISH watching it!

Screening Photos – Abraham’s Children Premiere

Monday, May 24th, 2010

I can’t tell you how wonderful it was to see (nearly) all the kids and their families in the same place and have them all meet and then have them up on stage with the crew!   Thank you for all that came to the Premiere of Abraham’s Children at the New World High School in the Bronx!  It was a trek for those not from the hood, but I hope it was worth it. 

And please, don’t be shy ACT! and donate to get this film into classrooms!   Thank you. 

Photos are courtesy of  Bob Cowin and Marc Seago.

Yasmine, Susan, Isma, Teresa, Claudia, Terry, Marc, Saraj, Tariq, Kasem & Ahmed

  

Terry, Claudia, Saraj, Tariq, Kasem, Ahmed, Haleema, Anam, Dareen, Nina

 

Yasmine with Teresa Pereira and Sister Susan

   

Ahmed and Saraj

My friend and supporter, Betsy holding up a donation envelope.

Launch of “One Educator = $1″ Campaign!

Monday, April 26th, 2010

We are raising funds to help us distribute Abraham’s Children to educators and get the film into as many American classrooms as possible.  Act! and help us achieve our goals.  $1 pays for a postcard to an educator and we are sending out over 3,000 cards.   Share, educate and contribute!

Donating is easy.  Go to our ”Donate” page.  One dollar, hundred dollars, what ever you can give.  Get a DVD copy of  Abraham’s Children, a “thank you” credit on our website, a poster and we have other cool thank you gifts.  Check it out. 

What is your message?

Friday, April 23rd, 2010

“When does the wisdom of crowds give way to the meanness of mobs?”  (http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/12/science/12tier.html).  

Interesting article, but really what caught my eye was the first sentence.   As I spend quite a bit of time with social networks, updating the Abraham’s Children website and blogging I sometimes feel like I’m losing sight of what I should do. 

What should I do?  These days, it’s getting a film out into the world.

Am I relying on the wisdom of crowds, or am I delivering myself to the madness of crowds? And where does “madness” start?

I’m building a brand and getting a message out – does that scream cliché or what?  It would be easiest so say: “watch my film, its awesome”.    That’s like Pepsi saying “drink Pepsi, its good”.  That’s not a brand, not a message, not a life style, nothing exciting and why should you bother?  There are millions of films out there and roughly 6,000 documentaries alone are produced in the US alone each year.   Gotta do better than that.   

What I learned in the last few months is nothing new but I never had a chance to put it into action with ONE PRODUCT (or service) in hand.   Having only one product, my film, I had no choice but to concentrate on IT – obviously.

My first instinct was to create more product.  As making another film is not practical I started thinking about merchandising.   How do you merchandise a documentary about Muslim children?  How do I pay for that?  What is the risk of money spent upfront versus potential income?  It didn’t seem worth the risk, so I ditched that idea.

Long story and many detours later I (re)-learned this:  Focus:  one message, one goal, one product.  If you manage to get that one message over right; minds open, opportunities arise and people HEAR you.  Once you’re there – you can go back (gingerly) to being your enthusiastic supporter of your own film with ideas to boot.    

Once you have your message and your product all primped and ready – then you can unleash the crowds – because now you know where you are going and what your vehicle is.  You still will possibly lose yourself in one mad crowd or the other – be it virtual, real or imagined.  But at least your message is always the same and your product has integrity.

With your message straight you also have a better gauge when you are being taken over by the crowd(s).  How many hours are you spending on Twitter, Facebook and your blog, when you could be making very targeted phone calls?  

Run a test by announcing something that requires feedback, a sign up, anything where your ‘crowds’ need to act.  Do they act?  That only works if your message is on target.   Otherwise your contaminating your social media ’trials’.  

So, either you change your message to fit your crowd or you change your crowd to fit your message…  and sometimes you just bang your head against the wall – I did.

What is your message?   What is your goal?  What is the integrity of your product?

For Abraham’s Children?
→  Abraham’s Children bridges the gap between the Muslim world and the West.
→  Our goal is to get Abraham’s Children into as many classrooms as possible in America.
→  Abraham’s Children is beautifully produced, wholesome and its modular set up is ideal for a learning environment.

A learning experience

Friday, April 9th, 2010

What’s missing?

SJU Screening Awning

Right – you guest it:  W.H.E.N. ??? 
And?   Duh!

When you know too much

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010

Innocence IS bliss.  But I knew that already, we all do.   Starting a business or a family, shooting a film, or getting involved with that community board: the “had I known” realization.   But what about the second time around?  What do we hope to do better, different, more efficient, or with more compassion?  Or is the first time so daunting that we decide: never again.

I remember my dear brilliant friend in Ireland who is also a filmmaker ask me if I was ready to spend the next two years of my life with my (first) documentary and I bravely said ‘yes’.   The conversation in my head was a bit different.   That was more along the lines of “yes, BUT…. won’t be full time, have clients, won’t take that long, etc.”

HA!  Had I known! But now I DO KNOW.  What does that mean for the next project?  NEXT PROJECT?  Are you kidding me?  You’re still knee-deep in this one.   Yeah, but this is a chance to get it right this time.  Set it up differently from the get go, make sure you align yourself even better with people who do what you don’t do well brilliantly, allocate the budget differently and most of all: PATIENCE.   Where does that leave the gut feeling and instincts though?  To me, those two are paramount. 

So here I am, trying to figure out not only a new awesome topic, angle and story, and something to be passionate about, BUT something where I can align myself NOW with the right people, groups, organizations and causes for three years from now when the film is done.   Yikes.   But you know me, I have some stuff cooking – I’m just afraid to serve it – pardon the metaphor – the ramifications are now clear beyond finishing the film – that was the easy part, remember.   I also have to make sure to get the film OUT into the world.  Will the second time be easier, or will it be harder? We shall find out.

Abraham’s Children Magazine Review

Sunday, April 4th, 2010

Elan The Magazine, posted a review of Abraham’s Children, by Imran Khan.   In anticipation of this article I’ve started reading Elan and find it totally entertaining, amusing and often thought provoking, although I couldn’t be further from their target audience – or at least:  I’m definitely neither in the age-group nor in the cultural-religious group their targeting, but it crosses over beautifully.   Below their mission statement and I would put a very big emphasis on “sarcastic” and actually call it irreverent.   Give it a try.

elanthemag.com is a daily, online publication on global Muslim youth culture. Formerly known in print form as elan Magazine, elan offers witty, engaging, thought-provoking and sometimes sarcastic takes on the issues that matter to our fellow young, hip Muslims. In addition to daily commentary from our bloggers on topics ranging from entertainment to politics, elan includes feature articles from prominent voices within our community, round table discussions by young Muslim leaders on hot topics, photo-essays, videos, profiles, special sections like “WTFatwa” and “Policy Shift,” and much more.

Screening at St. John’s University

Sunday, March 28th, 2010

Abraham’s Children will have it’s first screening at the LITTLE THEATRE at St. John’s University in Queens on Thursday, April 8th, 2010 at 6:00 PM.    Terry Katz, our editor, who is also an Adjunct Professor at SJU made the screening possible.  Terry,  Nina and Teresa Pereira, our associate producer will be there for sure and after the screening there will be a discussion round.

For those of you who cannot make it out to Queens – hold you horses – we will be announcing a day of screenings (yes, plural) in Manhattan soon!